Three Keys to Unshakable
Thanks so much for all the tools you’ve given me to make my life better. I am eternally grateful for you how helped me and my husband through our trials.
I have been through some dark and difficult times in my life. I feel fortunate that I started working with Tom along the way. He helped me understand my life as a journey towards wholeness and I learned to see myself and the mistakes I made with much more compassion. He encouraged me to love and accept myself, understand that I deserve love and good things in my life, and know that my worth does not depend on anything outside of myself. His challenge to me was to raise the bar and expect better things.
It didn’t happen overnight but my life is so much better now I can hardly contain my gratitude. I am in a long-term relationship with a man who has also struggled with how to give and receive love but we have been working on it and are growing together. As I have gotten healthier it has helped him to be healthier as well. We now are working on living a new and healthy lifestyle and it feels great. I can honestly say I am happy and that Tom has been instrumental in helping me transform my life and my relationships.
When I found out about the affair I was devastated. Was our whole marriage a lie? Was everything we had built destroyed? I didn’t know what to do but I made two important decisions. One, I got myself into therapy and started working through my grief and devastation. Two, my husband and I started working with Tom to see if we could save our marriage.
This has been a journey for sure and Tom has been an invaluable guide and support. He has helped us understand ourselves and each other in new and deeper ways. Because of what we have learned we are no longer afraid to be honest with each other, be vulnerable, and re-committed. This is the kind of marriage we always hoped for but didn’t know how to create. Tom’s clear, calm, loving, and skillful presence helped us find our way through the most difficult time in our marriage.
George and Kathy
I was thinking back the other day to how much I was struggling when I first started meeting with you. It’s like a bad dream. Life is really so much better in large part because of our work. I will always be grateful for your patience and wise counsel. It’s nice to know you’re out there to reconnect with if needed. In the meantime I’ll continue to send clients your way as I know they will get great care.
I am happier than I have been in a very long time. I am where I am supposed to be, doing what I am supposed to be doing. Thank you for helping me envision a different life than I was living.
I appreciated the chart you used in the video. At the moment, my husband and I have been separated for 8 months. We’re considering getting back together but don’t want to rush it. Your charthelped me to understand there’s a degree of emotional maturity required from both of us to make it work. I’m looking forward to your next video.
I’m not sure I can put my gratitude in words here… Thank you so much for your help over the years. We covered a lot of territory! You are so awesome at what you do and I know it was God’s doing that we connected. It is so nice to breathe in life and not have to remind myself to breathe. Life is feeling really good today. I will continue to do what brings me peace and keep in touch!
Working with Tom has made a big difference in my life. He never told me to leave my marriage but helped me to see that I could leave if I chose to. When I lost the fear of divorce, ironically, I was better able to engage my marriage in new ways. Tom has provided just the right combination of thoughtful questions, emotional grounding, and practical frameworks to help me improve my own self awareness and sense of perspective about my marriage and my other relationships.
I finally did it and have accepted a new position that fits my passion and background very well. As you can see from the attachment this new position fits very nicely in the work that I completed with you and it probably is as close of a fit as I could ask for given my background and experience. I am very happy for meeting you and performing the work together, I think this was a very good foundation for me to better understand myself and know what I was looking for and being prepared for such an opportunity. I am very appreciative that we met and applied the process that you have to create my leadership profile. Again, many thanks to your coaching over the time we had to prepare me for this next position. I think your process and discussions helped very much in landing this new position!
John, Director in medical device industry
I’ve shared Tom King’s contact information with many friends, acquaintances, and even co-workers. The reason being is that Tom has a passion for what he does and it was very evident during the time I worked with him. I appreciate Tom’s knowledge. He is very well read and on many occasions during our sessions would pull from his knowledge “toolbox.” I’m a “thinker” by nature, but the work I really needed to do with Tom related to my “emotional” self. Tom gracefully, and safely, took me on that journey and for that I am so grateful. My life is better today because of the time spent with Tom gaining a new perspective on life and doing some long overdue emotional healing that was beginning to impact my ability to function more recently. I recommend Tom King to anyone whose desire it is to stretch beyond their comfort zone. It takes courage to go on the therapeutic journey. You should. You will be glad you did – especially with Tom guiding your way.
I started working with Dr. King about 2 years ago. I was a manager at a Medical Device company working full-time with 3 small children. I was very insecure at work and constantly felt like a failure as a mother to my children. I was trying to hold my life together and felt like I was sinking almost every day. I started working on building my self-confidence through various exercises and frequent discussions with Dr. King. He helped me see myself how everyone else saw me, a strong hard-working parent who was doing all I could for my family. As I progressed gaining more confidence in myself, I started looking at my career and evaluating whether or not it was a good fit for me. Learning a lot about myself as an introvert, I learned I was giving most of myself to my co-workers and was completely exhausted by the time I got home to my family. My work days were meetings back to back with no time to “recharge my batteries.”
Dr. King helped me with several self-assessments to figure out what my strengths were, types of work that comes more naturally for me and motivates me so at the end of the work day, I am not so drained and can be present for my family. With his help, I was able to find the right area of work to utilize my strengths. He helped me work through building my resume, interviewing skills and tips and just generally how to get through the whole process. I did eventually find the exact job I was looking for. It was due to a lot work with Dr. King learning about myself, having the confidence to go out and be aggressive to find the job I wanted and feel good about my choices and how I handled myself. I am so proud of what I have accomplished the past few years and my greatest fear is where would have I been had I not found the help I needed. I am so grateful for where I am today.
Tom King is professional and insightful. He is able to gracefully get to the root of issues & guide you in the process of facing pain & truly dealing with it. If you need help sorting out the mess or the agony you’re in, if you need clarity in the midst of the storm, or you need to make a change, Tom will lead you to the tools you will need & always point you to the fact that there is a God who loves you deeply and is far from done being purposed with your life!